DARVO: The hidden script of reversed blameWhy bringing up valid issues ends in guilt trips

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Behavior Manipulation

Learn to spot the defensive maneuver that turns your complaints against you. When confronted, bad actors often deny the accusation, attack your credibility, and claim they are the true victim. This calculated sequence shifts focus away from their offense and causes deep confusion. By recognizing this pattern, you can maintain your ground and keep the conversation focused on the original problem.